Category: Relationships

  • 🌹 Shifting Identities: Roleplay fun

    By Cherrie Garcia How a Black Leather Outfit Turned My Boyfriend into a Stranger (And Why You Should Try It) Ever feel like your partner knows every single one of your moves? Every expression, every sigh, every spot that makes you weak? Even early on in our relationship, before we were even married, we realized…

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  • Are Swinger Clubs Really Worth Going To?

    By Cherrie Club The Fantasy vs. The Reality If you’re even a little bit curious about the swinger scene, you’ve probably wondered: Are swinger clubs really worth it? Maybe you’ve pictured wild parties with sexy strangers, or maybe you’ve mapped every club in a two-hour radius “just in case.” Either way, everyone secretly wonders: Is a night…

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  • Masochism: Why Pain Can Be Pure Pleasure

    By Cherrie Garcia And How We Make It Work Let’s talk about the “M” in BDSM—masochism. For some, this word conjures up wild images of whips, wild bruises, and scenes straight out of a dark, sexy movie. But the truth? Masochism is so much more than its reputation, and it doesn’t have to be extreme…

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  • Hotwifing

    By Cherrie Garcia The Sizzle, the Fantasy, and the Fun of Sharing Okay, let’s get real: hotwifing is one of those kinks that floats around swinger circles like a rumor you want to check out but aren’t sure you’ll survive. I swear, if I had a dollar for every time someone asked if I’d ever…

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  • Breath Play

    By Cherrie Garcia Trust, Exploration, and Honest Boundaries in Kink Breath play, or erotic asphyxiation, sits at the intersection of taboo and curiosity for many couples in the kink community. It’s one of those kinks with an aura of risk, excitement, and vulnerability—a practice that, for some, is wrapped up in surrender, control, and intense…

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  • Foot Fetish

    By Cherrie Garcia 🍒Going Toe-Deep With My Kinkster I used to wonder if there was a “normal” limit to sexual curiosity—and then I met my husband. He’s 6’3,” a magnetic mix of gentle strength and sexual freedom, and I’ve learned with him that boundaries in the bedroom aren’t set by anyone but us. Confession time:…

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